Let's get woo-woo!
I've been carrying negative feelings towards the hubster for a couple of weeks now. It's not good. Negativity feeds itself and it snowballs.

Add this to my state of PMS last week and it's even worse.

I forget that even when he's a pain in the ass, I do have a man who can TALK. Sometimes we don't get anywhere, but for the majority, we do. Or we're able to call a truce.

We sat down and chatted about all of these little aspects of our relationship and life that's been bugging us, and the next day was wonderful!

The negativity was gone, I felt like I was on cloud nine!

It's not that I need a man, but rather, I need positive things in the relationships I do have. I have found over the years that I do not do well in negative situations and stressful relationships.

I have walked away from friends and others because of this.

I need partnerships. I need give and take and everyone brings something to the table.

Since our chat, we're doing much better, and doing so with a genuine smile and some cuddles. We've had these times before, and we'll have them again. The difference is, this man can talk. He can listen. And because of his powers in communication, and just plain maturity with age and experience, I've also learned how to settle down, talk and listen.

No more drama! Life with my son is hard enough, I don't extra negative drama too.

It may sound all woo-woo but I truly believe if you surround yourself with positive people and thoughts, you're much healthier and positive yourself.

I've chosen that route after living my entire life in a negative drama. I can literally FEEL the difference this has on my mind, body and soul, and my kids and hubby will prosper too :)


- posted by Ginxy @ 6/28/2004 08:03:00 AM